Senator Susan Collins (R-Maine) knows something her mostly male counterparts don’t – when a woman steps forward and gives voice to her sexual assault/rape, usually more women will follow.
Not because they are engaged in some vast “left wing conspiracy.”
But because truth begets truth. And courage, once displayed by one woman willing to talk about the darkness that haunts her, is contagious.
That is precisely why the #MeToo movement has not been a faddish flash in the pan. More than half the population of this country is made up of women. They either have been assaulted, or likely know someone who has been.
The statistic I have read in my news feed is 1 in 4 women experience a sexual assault of some sort. That is a spectrum that runs from a grope in passing by someone with a sexual fetish to gang rape or worse.
In a country of more than 329 million people, more than 50% (about 167 million) are female. That means more than 41,750,000 women have been sexually victimized somehow, someway.
Again, if you round that up, 42 MILLION FEMALES have been sexually misused.
And that doesn’t begin to take into the account the nasty things men say they WANT to do to our bodies.
Yet eleven white men on the Senate Judiciary Committee, the Senate Majority Leader and the President don’t seem to believe these women are credible in their allegations against Supreme Court nominee Judge Brett Kavanaugh.
I am sorry Chuck Grassley(R-LA); Orrin Hatch (R-UT); Lindsey Graham (R-SC); John Cornyn (R-TX); Mike Lee (R-UT); Ted Cruz (R-TX); Ben Sasse (R-NE); Jeff Flake ( R-AZ); Mike Crapo (R-ID); Thom Tillis ( R-NC); John Kennedy (R-LA); Mitch McConnell ( R-TN) and Donald J. Trump (R-NY): the statistics aren’t with you.
Neither are the reams of anecdotal evidence that could be produced on the subject.
And the truth? Who knows since you won’t let the FBI investigate or other witnesses testify?
Meanwhile Hatch, Graham, McConnell and Trump in particular have done everything they can to discredit Dr. Christine Blasey Ford, the first accuser, to portray her as some confused woman to an out-right liar for political purposes.
The accounts of who SHE has been throughout HER life don’t tally with those characterizations.
But Kavanaugh’s life seems to be the only one these 11 white men of the Judiciary, the Senate Majority Leader, and the POTUS, are concerned with. Not because they genuinely care about Kavanaugh as a person – but because the political stakes on this nomination to the Supreme Court are the highest they have ever been.
And because they are governed by their own political machinations, they ascribe their motives to these women when neither statistics nor case study nor possibly even an investigation would bear this out.
To not slow down, to not investigate, to not interview contemporaries is as devastating for Kavanaugh, if not more so, than for Dr. Blasey Ford. She will go back home to her family, her job, her surfing and eventually have a normal life. Kavanaugh will have a permanent asterisk next to his name.
As for the 167 million of us who are FEMALE, who have been or could become victims of sexual assault, we don’t seem to count to these men at all.
Hopefully that will one day be their political doom.
Statistically, one of these four girls will be sexually assaulted at some point in her life. What if one of them was yours?
*Quote attributed to Mark Twain