I am not sure why. I am probably the busiest I have been right now since my working days, and that is while traveling at half the speed of life I used to travel.
Maybe it is the lemming effect. Who knows.
But I have two friends-one younger and one older-than me who have had incredible luck on dating sites recently.
So I did something I told myself the other day I would never do again and joined one.
Not only have I never found lasting love on any dating site I have ever tried, I seem to be an especial target of scammers, be it a dating site, Facebook or even DM on Twitter.
I think I have already been hit up twice by a new form of this scheme on the dating site. Two different people have contacted me on behalf of others who are too shy to do it themselves but somehow they managed to see my picture and their friends want me to e-mail them privately. If anyone out there knows how these stories end, let me know, because I am not bothering to find out for myself.
If someone wants me to correspond, the least they can do is pony up the six-month service fee like I did.
I don’t know what I am expecting to find doing this: A 60-year-old who doesn’t like golf, isn’t a successful something and hates walking on the beach with his non-athletic body? According to every profile I have read, he doesn’t exist.
They are all adventurous, romantic, honest, excellent communicators who love to travel, go to the theater, read voraciously, exercise daily and are looking for that “one special someone.” No games please.
Sigh. I feel this may be another fool’s errand and I should have stuck to my resolve to be content on my own. I am afraid of giving up the dignity I have managed to gather these past few years after my last dating debacle.
It probably doesn’t help that the movie I was watching last night was about this English couple about to celebrate their 45th wedding anniversary with a party when he receives news that a woman he had been hiking with in the mountains 50 years ago and who had fallen in the fissure of a glacier has been discovered – her body preserved. And that he starts confessing things to his wife about the situation she never knew before. Like he was the dead woman’s next of kin, for starters. In fact, they were sorta married. It goes quickly downhill from there.
I have to finish watching the movie tonight to find out the ending. Somehow I have a feeling the disappeared woman’s plunge into the fissure will have been no accident.
Just think I will be hitting “skip” on all those profiles showing outdoor hiking and climbing photos going forward.
Maybe I need to put “alpiners and scammers need not apply.” Or some new warning on my profile like that.
Then again, there may be no one left to be matched with if I do that.
Sigh. I have always hated dating. It is such a tentative state to be in.
What was I thinking? Aargh! Has anyone seen Lucy lately? Is the doctor in?
I may need to have my head examined.